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For example, what do you do if you are already working with a client who spontaneously asks you to do something beyond what was agreed? What do you do if a regular client says he is not sleeping with anyone else and asks you to allow him to not use a condom with you? What will you do you really need the money and your client pressures you to have anal sex or kiss them, despite your boundaries? What are your limits in terms of sadomasochism (S&M), drugs or threesomes?<\/p>\n

In practice, dealing with situations like these can sometimes be more difficult than anticipated. Your decisions must be your choice. This is important. You need to continue to guard your own limits. Make sure that you do not allow circumstances or clients determine what you will do, but that you always remain in charge yourself.<\/p>\n

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Start & Stop<\/strong><\/h5>\n

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Report abuse<\/strong>
Call us on 06 22 47 97 50<\/a><\/p>\n

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Come in
for a consult<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Related topics<\/h3>\n

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Health & Sex<\/h4>\n

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Your (sexual) health is important. Especially if you are a sex worker. It is important to be vaccinated and protected against hepatitis B.<\/p>\n

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Abuse<\/h4>\n

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Perhaps you have experienced something bad, in your private life or at home. It could have been a recent event or even some time ago. Has a client crossed your boundaries?<\/p>\n

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Finances<\/h4>\n

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It can be difficult to deal with less or little money. This can potentially lead to debt or other money problems.<\/p>\n

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Als je besluit als sekswerker te gaan werken is het belangrijk om voor jezelf van tevoren te bepalen wat jouw grenzen zijn. Bijvoorbeeld wat je wel of niet doet met klanten, op welk moment je betaald wilt worden, waar je wel of niet met ze afspreekt. Het kan je helpen om je niet op het moment zelf, terwijl je aan het werk bent, te laten verrassen met een situatie of vraag van een klant.<\/p>

Wat doe je bijvoorbeeld als je al met een klant bezig bent en op dat moment meer doet, of wil doen, dan afgesproken? Wat doe je als een vaste klant je vertelt alleen bij jou te komen en het zonder condoom wil doen? Wat doe je als je bijvoorbeeld geen anale seks wilt met klanten, of niet met ze wilt zoenen, maar je hebt het geld heel hard nodig en iemand biedt je daar veel geld voor? Wat zijn jouw grenzen wat betreft SM, drugs, met zijn drie\u00ebn?<\/p>

In de praktijk kan het weleens lastiger zijn met dit soort situaties om te gaan, dan je van tevoren denkt. Wat je daarover besluit, is jouw eigen keuze. Het is belangrijk dat het een bewuste keuze van jezelf is en dat je je eigen grenzen blijft bewaken. Zorg ervoor dat niet de omstandigheden of de klanten bepalen wat je doet, maar dat je altijd zelf de baas blijft.<\/p>

Wil je beter leren je eigen grenzen te stellen? Geef je dan op voor onze cursus \u2018Weerbaarheid en zelfverdediging\u2019.<\/p>

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Starten & Stoppen<\/strong><\/h5>

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Meld een misstand<\/strong>
Bel ons op 06 22 47 97 50<\/a><\/p>

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Kom langs
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Gerelateerde onderwerpen<\/h3>

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Gezondheid<\/h4>

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Je (seksuele) gezondheid is belangrijk. Helemaal als je sekswerker bent. Het is belangrijk om je te vaccineren en beschermen tegen hepatitis B.<\/p>

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Misstanden<\/h4>

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Misschien heb je vroeger iets naars meegemaakt, of kortgeleden. Priv\u00e9 of op het werk. Bijvoorbeeld met een klant die over je grenzen is gegaan.<\/p>

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Financi\u00ebn<\/h4>

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Het kan moeilijk zijn om met minder of weinig geld om te gaan. Dit kan mogelijk tot schulden of andere geldproblemen leiden.<\/p>

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